Living an abundant life or thriving for it?

Many times when we think of an abundant life, we all think of life in joy, having all the beautiful things life has to offer. While this is very true, I wish to share with you today that this is the one side of abundant life, there's another aspect of abundance that haven't been explored by many. 

This one sided understanding about abundant life has led many of us on a continuous looking for it while we already have it.

Let's start by defining what abundance is.

WHAT IS ABUNDANCE?

According to the English dictionary, the word abundance has the following meanings:

• an extremely plentiful or over-sufficient quantity or supply
• overflowing fullness: affluence; wealth

WHAT DOES THIS MEAN?

This means that abundance is something that we already have in over-supply. Abundance is not what you journey to, but it is a state of BEING.

It is not something you become, but something you already are 💥

I'm sure you are already asking yourself questions or even thinking this woman is crazy 😀

I may be crazy, but stay with me here especially if you're Christian.

There's this verse in the Bible John 10: 10 "The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I have come so that they may have life, and may have it abundantly"

This verse says it all, that Jesus came so that we can have life in abundance. Not going to have it. He came and abundance is what you have already

If that is the case, 

WHY IS IT THAT WE THINK WE DON'T HAVE IT?

It is because we were taught and led to believe that abundance is something you thrive for, something you become and not something you are.

Let me explain what I mean. 

You as a person are already abundant. Abundant in growth (hair/nails/body cells) they grow effortlessly. You are already abundant in life (breathing comes effortlessly so). You are already abundant in knowledge (you know things you don't know how you know them), the list is endless.

The question may be then "why am I not feeling or seeing this abundance?" That is because we have reduced abundance to material possessions.

We have missed the understanding that abundance is a state of being. Meaning you are already in the state of abundance as things stand, the real question is:

WHAT STATE OF ABUNDANCE ARE YOU IN?

Over-supply, over-flow and plenty of what? That's what makes a difference.

Are you in abundance of problems or solutions? Abundance of joy or misery? Abundance of health or disease? Abundance of smiles or tears? Abundance in fear or love? Abundance of courage or timidness?

It is very easy to establish where one is, your life experiences says it all.

You are already living in abundance, the only thing that has got to change is knowing what part of abundance you want more of and why?

Before you get more depressed about your life, I want you to know that there's a beautiful and more powerful reason why you are having those experiences. And the reason goes beyond what you can see, feel and touch. It goes beyond your senses but to your mission of being here in this life. Which is returning to unconditional love. Loving yourself and all experiences the same way. Not choosing the other over the other because all of those are a huge part of your purpose of being on this earth.

Meaning that if you are currently living life in abundance of problems, there's many solutions within you that are laying dormant, that you still need to activate. 

AND HOW DO YOU ACTIVATE THEM?

1. You do that by being GRATEFUL for the experience itself. Because it is through that experience that you seek resolution. Meaning it is through seeing a problem that you go seek a solution. 
2. APPRECIATING and LOVING the problem as much as you love the solution because you now have an understanding that without a problem there wouldn't be a solution. Therefore returning back to UNCONDITIONAL LOVE

That is why I have put together a powerful 3 months online programmme -  REDEFINE YOURSELF MASTERMIND  to help you understand your life, the support you have all around you and how all these experiences are part and parcel of your journey.

To inquire about the programme or my work, you can connect with me via WhatsApp on 064 518 1767 or by email: portia@theloveacademy.co.za

I hope this article have helped shed light for you. 

I would really love to hear from you, please leave the comment and also share this with your loved ones.

Much love

Are you operating from lack or abundance?

Every time when we are asked this question, all of us respond with so much enthusiasm that "yes, of course, I'm operating from abundance" 😍

Well, I'd like to share something today that will help you respond to this question in a more practical and realistic way.

Actually your behavior and your day to day actions will let you know where exactly you are operating from most of the time.

How do you know which energy you are operating from most of the time?

I'll explain this in terms of real life day to day examples:

Poverty/lack energy - someone gives you a compliment

"wow, your dress looks nice and it suits you perfectly"

Your response: " I bought it on a special, you can also get it"

"Your house is so beautiful"

Your response "arg, there's still so much to do in it"

"wow, thank you so much, you've changed my life"

Your response "oh, it wasn't me, you did the work"

What is happening in all these response is that you are not receiving the love God is sending you through people. Instead of you seeing the compliments for what they are, you feel the urge to justify why you are getting or shouldn't be getting the compliment.

Gratitude/abundance energy 

using the examples above, your responses will be

"Thank you, thank you, thank you"

When you are operating from abundance, you don't feel the need to justify why you are getting what you are getting, but you recognize that the force beyond you saw that you are worthy to receive all this and you acknowledge your own beauty and greatness you are adding to this earth.

You recognize that you are worthy to receive all that you are getting, not because you have really done much, but because you are

Now, depending on which energy you are operating from, you'll also show up the same way in your relationships.

How does your energy affect your relationship?

Poverty/lack

You are forever suspicious of others intentions. When someone does something good for you, you think there's an ulterior motive, e.g.

Your partner buys you a gift out of nowhere, it's not your birthday, anniversary, or special occasion, and instead of receiving the gift with love, you think to yourself "there's something they've done, they must be hiding something"

You ask "how do I look, I seem to have lost some weight"

Their response "you have love, you look amazing"

But you don't accept this and think to yourself "they are just saying this to make me feel good, obviously it's my mother, she's going to say that"

In a nutshell, you don't believe the greatness that you are because you are operating from a field of energy that says "its not there" - lack

Whereas,

Gratitude/abundance

You are too happy to receive the gifts, you take in all the compliments you receive from your clients, your partner, your mother etc. They don't have to justify to you, why they are saying all that to you. 

When you hear any compliment, you become like a small child whenever they receive exactly what they've been looking and asking for. 

You receive everything that comes to you for exactly what it is - gift and acknowledgment of your greatness"

You know very well what you've been giving and understand that for every good thing you give, you'll receive in many forms that is meant to come. You are no way blocking the cycle of life by wanting to always give and not open yourself to receive.

Where to from here?

The question for you today is "do you recognize where you've been operating from?"

Do you now see and understand why you are where you are? Do you now see why you've been experiencing all that you are experiencing?

Because the truth and reality is that " what you focus on expands"

Now that you know all this, what are you going to do?

My advise is, dial a coach and get yourself out of that energy by healing the wounded aspects of yourself that are keeping you in that energy field.

I am that coach for you, anytime you are ready, make contact through Whatsapp +27 64 518 1767 or email: portia@theloveacademy.co.za

Much love

Are you seeking answers for the repetitive patterns in your life? read on......

As we journey in this life, we get to a point where we find ourselves seeking answers of what is happening or even why we are going through all that we go through at any given moment.

This is very normal and it is a quest that any human being finds themselves in at some point in their lives.

The challenge is when one seeks answers about why certain people are behaving or doing certain things to them and then spend their time and energy trying to figure out that person's behavior and doing everything in their power to fix them.

Well as you've seen until this far, that hasn't worked, because the person that is seeking the answers is you. And your are seeking must be all about you.

It is only when you get to this point where you need clarity for yourself that you'll get the answers you need. I'm sure you've heard that "you're what you think" or "your thoughts create your reality" and you've been wondering and even questioning or doubting the truthness to these kind of statements, because the big part of you says "if I am creating my reality then why would I call such bad experiences and horrible people and incidences into my life?"

The answer to that is "you are asking the wrong questions"

What? Is there such a thing ?

Yes, there is. 

You see part of your brain's functionality is to find answers for you. So while you are doing this life, that's exactly what you'll get, answers to the questions you are asking.

Now, it must be made clear that the questions you don't only ask by speaking them out loud, you're asking through your thoughts, your actions even with what you are saying - your words.

Now when you start the question with the "why" the brain will go look for evidence for you. And all this evidence will be based on what you've programmed through repetitive thinking and doing throughout your life and even through what others around you have said and done. 

It is therefore never a good idea to ask your brain "why" especially if you are feeling bad or are in a bad space because it will then go find you all the answers that will reiterate, confirm and in turn reaffirm all the bad experiences and things you've been through. It will find you the evidence of all the things you don't want. 

Which is why for many of us, affirmations don't really work, not because they are not powerful statements, but because at the core of your being, you don't believe the things you are affirming to yourself. Instead of this empowering you, you find yourself feeling even worse than you did before you embarked on that quest.

So, what should you do instead?

You should ask still, the only difference is that this time around your question must start with "what". 

Instead of you asking "why is all this happening to me?' you should rather ask  "what is this teaching me?" or "what lesson(s) am I meant to get here?"

This way, you're still allowing your brain to do its work that it was created for,  its just that this time you are asking for the solutions instead of the problem.

In a nutshell, this is what you're seeking:  clarity on the repetitive occurrences, and you are called to answer these questions;

• What are you refusing to see ? - which is why the patterns are repeating
• What do you need to release off your system so that you can start having the life you want?
• What do you need to do in order to move on to the next phase of your life?

Once you get clarity on these, it is then that you'll start seeing and receiving the answers that you are seeking, which are and have always been within you.

One thing I can promise you is that once you get to doing your life this way, then the seeking becomes meaningful and exciting instead of hurtful and miserable. 

This way, you become the light that you were always meant to be 🙏😍

If this article helped shed some light for you, please do share with others.  And I would really love to hear your insights and comments on it.

Should you want assistance with getting clarity with the patterns of your life, please do feel free to make contact via WhatsApp +27 64 518 1767 or email: portia@theloveacademy.co.za

Much love

As you heal your love story, period pains vanish

😂😂😂 yes, you heard right.

And this is a true story for me.

I was challenged conceiving my youngest son, in such a way that in 2010 while everyone was enjoying the World Cup here in South Africa, I was in and out of hospital every month, on overnight observations. And every time, I'll be told it's bladder infection.

It was in 2011 March when my manager who was female told me to get a 2nd opinion from other specialist as she knew it was 2 years trying consciously for a baby with no luck. She referred me to a fertility specialist, who discovered a whole lot of things in my womb which led him to diagnosing me with Endometriosis Stage II. He told me something very interesting the day I got discharged out of hospital after a minor operation he had to do, that I must have experienced a lot of trauma because my womb wasn't looking healthy. He also asked if I experienced any period pains of which the answer was a definite yes. He then told me that as soon as one experiences period pains then they must know there's something wrong in their menstrual cycle as one shouldn't be having any pains during their periods. He further explained that your body alerts you through pain as to where it needs attention. 

I mean, in our culture we've been told that it is normal to experience period pains and they will go away when one has a child. That time I had a 11 old year child, so this was found not to be true in my case. As the period pains were getting worse as I was growing older.

Well, let me say I did manage to conceive after the minor operation. But what he had also advised was that we had to consider removing the womb altogether as there was no permanent cure for Endometriosis.

After having a baby I opted to put an Implanton instead of using contraceptives. This contraception method is a 3 year term thing and one doesn't get their periods which suited me very well because I honestly hated my periods, because that was the most miserable time of the month for me. The pain was just too much.

It was in 2014 after removing the Implanton that I decided to fully engage on finding a natural solution for this condition instead of having to remove the womb. That is when I came across the www.floliving.com  website, which gave me so insight about how I can heal these womb issues the natural way.

Now, you may be wondering:

How does all this link to healing the love story?

As I embarked on a journey of healing my love story that's where I realized that the more I delved into healing my pain which has been laying in my womb, I started getting rid of many symptoms that I had been getting, like period pains. 

I mean it's been a while since I've had any symptoms related to the condition I was diagnosed with which i thought was normal, until the fertility specialist told me otherwise. I promise you, now Mrs. Monthly comes without me noticing anything. She will just arrive with no symptoms whatsoever. 😍😍😍.

Now, if you have been in my position where unbearable abdominal and back pains, followed with headaches were your normal life to where I am now, it is a HUGE DEAL 🙏💖. 

How did you do it, you may be wondering?

1. I downloaded the app MyFlo to start tracking my period cycles and symptoms. The app gives you insights on hormones, what to focus on in terms of work, the exercises to do, food to eat, what to do to boost your love life and you can share the app with your partner so they help you on your journey (whichever way they can - support is everything you know)😍
2. Started paying attention to Mrs. Monthly herself, the color, odor, length etc.
3. Delved into monthly womb healing rituals (story for another day)
4. Most importantly, I started looking at healing my emotional body, which is where I've been carrying these pains. Facing and dealing with all the emotions as they appeared. And truly engaged in healing the aspects of my love story that needed healing. Now, this is a lifetime journey as these pains show up differently in your life, through your relationships, money, work etc. I started investing in dealing with whichever area of my life that was showing me flames. I must say, I'm truly happy to have embarked especially on this particular part of my life, because since I've started understanding why things happen the way they do and show up, my monthly visits by Mrs. Monthly have been such a bliss 😍💖

Which is why today I can attest, that the more you heal your love story, the period pains become the thing of the past. Actually even your fertility issues.

I'm honored to be landholding my fellow sisters as they heal their love story because deep down I know, the benefits are greater than the investment itself. 

Should you wish for me to be part of your healing journey, please do not hesitate to make contact via WhatsApp 064 518 1767 or email: portia@theloveacademy.com

Your Sacred relationship Coach

What's your love story?

Your love story didn't start when you got into a relationship with someone, i.e when you started dating, it started way before you even came to this earth. 

Here I'm talking about your love story in this lifetime.

When did it start, kanti?

Good question 😍

Your current love story started while you were still in the womb. It started immediately after you were formed completely in the womb and your senses started being activated. 

It has been confirmed that a child hears everything around them while they're still in the womb. That is why it is so easy for a new born baby to recognize the voice of the mother while before they can see her image. 

Not so long ago (2019), I came across a video of a new born baby that smiled at daddy after recognizing his voice, please check the picture for yourself here

This shows that our love story started when we were already in the womb with our primary sources.

Even worse with your mother because a baby senses her emotions too. Therefore your love story gets formed from what these 2 people get up to.

Let me illustrate this using my own love story.

My love story..........

I was told that  my father denied the pregnancy and said I wasn't his child. 

I can only imagine what my mother went through that time. 

So with me, feelings of rejection and abandonment started way before I set foot on this earth. By the time I got here I had a story to either reinforce or correct through my own love life.

As young as 5 years old I didn't have a good relationship with men. I was raped and sexually abused many times in my childhood. All these things happening reinforced the same rejection and gave me more reasons not to like these species.

When I started dating, I jumped from one partner to the other, doing what? Looking for this huge aspect of myself that was abandoned - my father.

How  does your love story affects your current relationships?

Depending on what story you formed when you were in the womb, you'll either repel or be loyal to the story. 

For example,

• If when your mother was pregnant with you, there was no connection between your father and you, meaning he didn't make efforts to connect with you by playing or talking to you, there will already be distance between the two of you. 
• If you are a man, you might find yourself having difficulty connecting or even getting close to your own kids - this is when you become loyal to the story you formed then
• If you are a woman, you'll either attract men that are unavailable or look for your father in men out there, i.e craving deep connection. This playing out is being loyal to the story because all this is reaffirming is that men are emotionally unavailable. 

Similarly, repelling against your story will be vice versa on the scenarios above, which is

connecting and being close to your own kids (man) , and attracting partners that want to be with you (woman)

Your love story is based mainly on the relationship between yourself and the two people who created you. Therefore any disconnection with one of them will create some disconnection within yourself. 

What's the real purpose of you being here related to your story?

You're here to either heal your love story or share your  healthy love story with others. 

Meaning if your love story that you formed before you came here was negative, then your journey in love is to heal that story so that you can experience the very same love you've always wanted and in turn help others know and experience love through you.

The greatest challenge with many of us especially the black nation is that our love stories are not so great. Because our ancestors experienced so much separation, men were away from home to work and it was the responsibility of a woman only  to groom a child. Even worse, men were not encouraged to connect with their kids while the wife is still pregnant because this was seen not to be the role of a man.

So many of us, our love stories are that bad, because of how things were then. Which is why we are now called to change this love story so that generations after us can experience and learn something completely different through us.

What's interesting is that even the names we were given or the names we give our kids tells a lot about the love story

Now, I look back and realize it's no coincidence my mother gave me the names I have.

What has your names got anything to do with your love story?

My name is Nomasonto and the other one is Portia. But my mother gave me a nickname "Popie" apparently I looked like a doll 😀, and she would tell people about this doll she had. So that's the name I was using most of my life.

It is only recently that I've started using my first name Nomasonto. The meaning of my names:

Nomasonto - initially I thought I was probably born on a Sunday which is why she gave me that name, but I wasn't, I was born on a Wednesday. Only to realize later the meaning behind the name, sonto is church in Zulu.

Now, I'm a firm believer that church is not the building or even the congregations we attend but you yourself. The inner person living inside of you. Meaning a church is a person. Which is why my work today is help others heal their inner relationship.

Portia which is my second name. Not so long ago, I learnt about the ascended master lady Portia, whose role in her lifetime was to bring about karma and justice.

Looking at my names, you can tell already that my existence was merely to either bring karma or justice to the love story I had created while in the womb.

Therefore the questions you are to answer for yourself daily are " what is my love story?" and "How is/are my names related to this story?"

Now, in order for you to be able to own your love story and also do exactly what you were meant to be, you've got to know first what your story is.

How to identify it?

1. Look at your love experiences this far - what story are they telling you?
2. If you still have your mother around - ask her what her experience in life was when she was pregnant with you? What emotions she went through, etc. ?

This is where your journey to healing the story starts.

What if she's no longer around, are you then doomed?

No, you are not, because you're still here. So you can start by using your current experiences to identify your love story so you can embark on the healing journey.

Because, the good thing is that once you start your own healing journey and you heal your love story, you'll be already altering the DNA of your generations. Meaning everyone who will come through you will know and have a different love story just because you did your part.

Helping people identify and heal their love story is the reason I wake up daily. To know more about me you can read here. You can connect with me via WhatsApp on +27 64 518 1767 or email: portia@theloveacademy.co.za

Thank you for stopping by. If this article was of benefit to your please share it with your friends and family. Please also leave your comment as I'd love to know what this sparked in you.

Much love

Are you still stuck in the past in your relationships journey?

Many of us are not even aware that our behaviors and responses to life's happenings reflect if we are allowing life to flow through us or hanging on to some energies that result in us blocking ourselves from experiencing love the way we want to.

How are you holding on to the past?

If you're still saying things like:

"you have changed"

"you no longer treat me the way you used to"

"so and so used to do this and that"

"I wish things can go back to normal, how they used to be"
"That happened to me before, so I don't want to take chances"

All these comments are signs you're still stuck in the past when life is passing by. 

In reality you'll never experience the same experience you did before. It can only happen the way it happened only once in its experience, any other time it is you holding on to the experience itself.

You're called to this understanding that CHANGE IS THE ONLY THING THAT IS CONSTANT, and when you do, you'll then enjoy many more experiences as they are meant to happen.

A typical example of how one holds on to the past?

A client of mine took a business opportunity 2 years ago and worked with these people who had a contract but didn't have the assets to fulfill the terms of the contract. She got into the business engagement with these people who ended up using her assets and not paying her.

She took her assets back from them and made a conscious decision that she'll never get into business with people  who come from the same area as these people who crooked her. Not only that, she decided she'll keep her assets until she finds a direct contract. It's been 2 years waiting

What has been happening is that she's been attracting all other people who wants to get onto the same arrangement with her and she's been refusing the opportunities and getting frustrated about this.

When she came to me she wanted me to help her understand why she keeps attracting these people into her life.

The answer to that is: You take yourself with everywhere. So if you keep attracting the same experiences, it shows that you have not healed from a wound that was created by that initial act.

Another typical example is always attracting partners who cheat on you.

You're attracting these people so you can start healing that part of you.

How can she heal this aspect of herself so that it doesn't repeat itself?

1. Identify what wounded her in the first place -  "people not honoring their part of the deal"

2. Establish what lesson she needed to learn - "set boundaries for herself"

3. Identify in what areas of her life is she doing the same thing - "mirror work"

3. Determine possible solutions for future engagements - "find and learn what other possible ways are out there that can help prevent this happening, instead of denying herself the opportunities, e.g  she can look into JV agreements instead.

By the time we had finished with the session she realized how  she's denying herself of what she wants which is to prosper and grow in business just because of an incident that happened in the past, that led her to believe that everyone will do exactly what the other person did.

The same applies to your relationships, what the previous men/women did to you doesn't mean every men/women are like that.

Take a good look at yourself,  what will your ex's say about you if they were asked? Does that mean you're exactly like that to date? I'm sure a lot has changed about you, what makes you think much hasn't changed about others?

Be reminded, your past is exactly that and you only take it to your future if you don't learn the lessons you were meant to learn.

Question to ask yourself as you allow yourself to move from your past is:

"What lesson did that incident present for me to learn?"

Thank you for stopping by, please share this with your loved ones to help shed some light so they can start experiencing life for what it is, they way they want to - loving unconditionally

Much love

Dear parents......

Your kids are not here to learn from you but to help you grow 💥💥💥

Yep, you heard right!

What do I mean by that?

Your child knows you better than you think they do. They know very well actually.

Because your child's pure existence is YOU. 

In your child runs run your blood and your DNA. Your child being here is a full expression of who you are. 

In order for the baby to be formed, your reproductive cell which is an egg and a sperm had to come together to form this baby. 

So, you are a huge part of your child.

How can they know you? 

They came here to help you know a different way of being besides what you know. That is why as kids grow older, they will tell you in your face, that "I'm not you, I don't see things like you, can't I just be myself"

They know very well that being you (the parent) is not that there is to being, but there's actually more to it. Which is why they came through this life to help you to discover a whole more about life.

But, because we were taught that baby's learn from us, we then thought we have to act a certain way, do certain things so that they can be better individuals.

Guess what, that is a bubble that these kids are here to help us blow up. They came here already knowing who and what you are all about.

It's even worse, as a mother the baby takes on everything about you from emotions, to energies to the food you consume, etc. while they are still in your tummy.
The same applies to the father, the baby take on whatever you are at that moment. If you are present during the pregnancy, the child will warm up so easily and connect with you so easily. 

If the child came through rape, they know the kind of seed you are, and they come here to help heal that particular type of seed in humanity whichever way they came to do

What is parenting all about?

Parenting is all about your growth.

It is all about you allowing another human being to be fully themselves.

It is about you allowing to heal from a whole lot of emotions and wounds you are already carrying.

It is about you allowing yourself to be shown a different way to be in this life.

It is not all about you, but them. Stop putting yourself under pressure, because the more you do that, the more you plant things in this child that they are not here for. The more you create resistance in your life, that will express itself in so many different way, e.g ill discipline, anger, etc.

Just let the child be, they know how to be.

You don't believe me? Look at a new born baby, the know how to be joyful, happy all by themselves without your help. 

They know when to do whatever they are ready for without your help. They know how to communicate with you and get your attention on whatever they want. That is why they'll cry if they need a nappy change or are hungry or are not feeling well. They know when to start walking, etc.

They know very well how to express and communicate whatever they need to at any given moment.

You don't need to teach them how to do these things. They are doing this all by themselves - knowing how.

All you have to do is allow yourself to be taught what you don't know through them, because all that you know is what was taught and instilled in you. They know that, and God being good, he co-created a human being with you so that you can learn from a smaller version of yourself. 

Look around you and see what amazing things children around you are capable of doing. They are doing things that some of us as adults we don't even know. Creating wonders in the world. 

Kids have written and published book as early as 4 years old, some by the time they are 8 (like Stacy Fru) have published about 4 books. I heard the other day that the highest paid YouTuber is an 8 year old boy Ryan Kaji

And we want to think, these kids don't know they are?

Do I say all kids are like this?

Yes, I believe with my whole being all kids are greatest teachers. I don't know how many learning I've received in my life through my now 8 year old son. From before his birth, until this day, I've learnt and still learning valuable life lessons through him.

He cries when he wants to cry, he gets easily excitable, he's not afraid to ask for help, he knows very well how to express himself through his body, language, alles. He tells things as he sees them. He knows things we ourselves don't know and explains them very well to us. There's a lot

What am I saying to parents?

Can we please allow these kids to be. 

If you have already done the damage because you didn't know or see things this way, it's OK. Your child knows that too. But it's time for you to let go of thinking you know better. 

Because the truth of the matter is you don't. 

Allow yourself to heal through your child by first acknowledging what you have done this far unconsciously and all in the name of teaching them. Forgive yourself for you didn't know. Then go apologies to your child and then sit back and watch how things turn around in your life through their eyes.

You owe yourself and them that much

ALLOW YOUR CHILD TO HOLD YOUR HAND TOO!

Thank you for stepping by, I'm glad to be a guide to shed this light to you

Much love

Are you a spiritual person?

This is a question I was asked by someone after listening to a YouTube video I did explaining what  the statement "you attract who you are" means. You can check the video out here

My response to her was "yes I am and so are you" 😍

Then I asked her "what do you mean by me being a spiritual person? She then explained that according to her understanding a spiritual person is everyone who is in the journey of being a healer like a sangoma, pastors, prophets, etc. People that are called to help others heal.

I then said to her: "but we're all called to help others heal, in many exciting and yet different ways" 😍, that is why the word of God says we're fearfully and wonderfully made"

After a short but very exciting call with her, I decided I'm going to blog about this and help as many other people as possible get the clarity and understanding  she had based on my answer to her.

Why do I say we are all spiritual people?

That is because we are all spirit before we are a physical person. Actually we are a spirit having a human experience through this body.

So, me and you and every other human being alive at this moment, is more spirit than the body itself. But the spirit needs the body to be live in, while the body won't be alive without the spirit in it. So we're two in one person, both needed each other to make you alive this time as a person you are now.

What do I mean by that?

If a person dies and is declared dead, the body of the same person will be still around here, but they'll be declared dead, and it doesn't end there, those that are there will say Nomasonto is no longer with us. Now the body that we knew that has always been with us with a spirit living in it, will still be here, which is the same body we do lay to rest at the graveyard. 

But everyone will be crying that their loved one is no more.

Now this clearly explains that the loved one, a person we see with our physical eye is not entirely the real person. Meaning that the real person is actually the one that we don't see, that we can't even touch. But we can only experience them through this body that we see and can touch.

How are you fearfully and wonderfully made?

God saw it fit, that in this world somebody exactly like you is needed in this specific time. He looked at your family both maternal and paternal and thought if I don't create such an individual there'll be hell to pay in these families. But it didn't end there, he also thought a specific person with your specific gifts and talents is needed in this world for wonderful things to happen through you.

Now, why is that we think others are spiritual and some are not?

The people that are assumed to be spiritual are those human beings that have decided to invest more time and energy consciously connecting to the spirit person they are. 

These are the people that at some stage it is believed that they have supernatural powers that others don't. And because they've invested so much time and energy into connecting intentionally with themselves, it looks to others like they are different but in actually effect we are all different, it's just that these individuals have intentionally decide to be conscious about what they do and how they show up in the world , tap into these gifts that they possess (that we all have been given in different ways) so that they can help others whichever way God has allowed and imparted them to.

Unfortunately what a lot of people haven't understood is that whether you do it intentionally or not, the spirit person that you are is always in control of what happens in your life. 

So you might as well pay attention to getting to know yourself better and connect with yourself on a conscious level.

What are the benefits of consciously investing in yourself?

You stop fighting life and start accepting life as it is not how you want it to be

You stop trying to fix people you've got no business fixing

You start showing up in the world as your best self

You start appreciating everything and everyone you come across in your life

You get to know yourself better everyday

You start loving yourself and others unconditionally

You start seeing everyone else as yourself

Does this mean all these people we say are spiritual are like this?

Not everyone see things this way. Others they look at investing themselves as a job to make themselves money and others even use this as a way to abuse and take advantage of others. 

So at the end of the day, it depends with the person as to how they're receiving themselves as well as others around them.

So with being said, it brings me to the last point I want to share: 

All the experiences, including the people you attract in your life are actually called into your life by the spirit person you are, to help you to get to know yourself better, where you are doing well and where you still need to heal. The whole point of bringing these experiences and people to your life is to help you return back to the unconditional love that you are so that you can express and share the love that you are with the world. 

Just like I've been saying all along, if you want to experience the blissful relationships you came here for, you are gonna have to start paying attention to the spirit self you are. 

How do you do that?

• Pay attention to your emotions. Because your emotions are actually energy in motion (e-motion), which is you in a nutshell.
• Listen to what your spirit person is communicating to you at any given moment. How? Through your feelings. How you are feeling at any given moment is your spirit person communicating to you if you are (both spirit and physical person/body) in alignment. So, whenever you feel good emotions just know that you're in alignment and whenever you feel bad emotions you are not in alignment. In simple terms (you're either on the same page or same whatsapp group or you are not)

At the end of the day, you make the decision whether consciously or unconsciouly as to what you want to experience in your life. 

So, you might as well do it consciously because you are creating all of it at the end of the day. 😀

If any of this has raised so many questions or made you feel even more bad or you still  want more clarity based on your own personal experiences, please do not hesitate to contact me by email at: portia@theloveacademy.co.za or Whatsapp 064 518 1767

I'd like to hear from you still especially if this has shared light and shifted you in any way, you can share by living a comment below and then share this with your loved ones.

Much love

What is your sex life saying about you and your life?

With the lock-down happening almost everywhere around the world, and now here in SA. I thought I should share this with you, to help you improve your engagement levels during this trying time 😍

Sex is a very great tool to communicate as well use as a reflector about your life

How, you could be asking?

Let me start by reminding you of the different types of communication. There's written, verbal, non-verbal, i.e. body language. 

So, when you are having sex, you’re communicating using our body. You are communicating to the next person your wants and desires using the body.

It is therefore important to understand that sex is another way to express yourself to the next person without using words

As to what you are communicating to the next person at that stage is entirely up to you and NOT the next person

Question to ask yourself as you engage in sex are?

 “What am I saying to this person about myself?” 

“What do I want him/her to know about me during or through this engagement?”

This mind frame changes the whole ball game all together on how you engage yourself during sex.

It no longer becomes about the other person but about YOU to them. Once you start adopting this mindset then you won’t feel used like most people do or have been without this understanding.

What happens within you before, during  & after sex?

1. Emotions -  what goes on within you? Do you feel any excitement, resentment, anger, frustration, sadness, etc?

2.  Personality - are you the creative, flexible and spontaneous type, always looking to try and do different things? Or are you one for the same place, same time, same style type of person?

3. Feelings - when you are woken up at night (those who have #wake-up partners), how do you feel? Do you see this time as an opportunity to engage with the next person, or do you like me get angry you’ve just been disturbed from your peaceful sleep? 😊

4. Thoughts - when thinking about the person you are doing it with or the one you are about to do it with, what thoughts occupy you about the person? Do you think, he/she is so boring and wish you could be doing it with somebody else? Do you perhaps think, he’s just clueless and don’t know what he’s doing - ladies? Do you think about your ex who did it better than the current or vice versa – comparing? Do you wish he/she was somebody else altogether?

5. Engagement level - during the act, are you fully engaged in it and thoroughly enjoying yourself during whole process or are you the one who thinks about the finish line and not fully engage throughout?

6. Goal - what happens when you don’t get to the finish line (orgasm)? Do you get disappointed, angry or you still feel fulfilled because throughout the act you were fully engaged (mind, body and soul). If you do reach orgasm, do you show gratitude by thanking the next person, or you keep quite or do you turn you back on the other person showing signs of being disinterested?

7. Commitment - do you stick to one partner and try different things with this person or have multiple partners trying different things with them? If you have multiple partners, do they know that there’s others? How are each of them serving your well-being?

 Do you understand what sex is?

Sex is a process and a tool for CREATION.

Through it, generations and seeds are multiplied to keep human species alive in this world.

It is not only the human beings, but even the emotions and energies through which we live by are kept alive through this very same process of creation.

How does it serve as a reflector about your LIFE?

How you answered the questions above, can easily help you identify how you do in other areas of your life. Yes, you heard right 😀

Compare your answers below with what you answered above:

 When you think about your LIFE – all areas (marriage, love relationship, friendship, family, health, job, business, money etc) 

1. Emotions - how do you feel in these areas? Compare your answer to how you answered the above section

2. Personality - how flexible are you to try new things in life? How creative are you in your life to make it colorful? Do you easily adapt to change or resent change?

3. Feelings - When asked to do something out of your comfort zone or when something disrupts your routine, how do you feel? Do you see this as an opportunity to engage in something new and different for your growth or resent or discard the opportunity?

4. Thoughts - when you think about the person you are with now, what thoughts comes to you about the person (judgement, empathy, excitement)? Do you compare him/her to others? HOW ABOUT YOURSELF, how often do you compare yourself to others? How often do you look at others and judge them thinking you can do better than them if given a chance? Do you find yourself wishing you were somebody else or in another person’s shoes and not yours, having that person’s life and not yours?

5. Engagement - when embarking on something (project, business adventure, goal), how do you engage in it. Are you the person that gets excited throughout the process (ups and downs welcomed), or you are those that only gets excited when they get to the finish line (results), throughout the journey of acquiring whatever, you are completely out of tune (disengaged)

6. Goal - if you get different results than you expected (disappointments that points you to a different direction), how do you respond? Do you feel content that you were fully engaged in the process and therefore have learnt valuable lessons throughout the way, or you bit yourself up because you feel that you could have done better?

7. Commitment - do you stick to one thing and get fully engaged in it to make sure you get it right, or do you have many more other things happening at the same time? If more, how are all of these things of value to you?

I'm sure you get the idea of the point I'm putting across to you, that how you do one thing in your life, is highly linked to how you do other things.

I could go on and one, but I’ll leave it here for today.

One thing to remember is that there's no right or wrong answer here, this is just to help you understand how sex serve as a communication tool as well as a reflector to you about yourself. 

As you engage going forward especially now that you've got even the time to think about it, ask yourself this:

What is my current sex life reflecting to me about me about how I show up in life?

Thank you for stepping by. Please leave a comment and share with your loved ones.

Should you wish to engage with me more privately on this matter, please do email: portia@theloveacademy.co.za

And if for whatever reason you're not happy with what came up for you and would like more assistance with changing that, please do reach out. Find out more about me here

Much love

Corona virus; a blessing or a curse for your relationships?

Everything that happens in this world has both the negative and positive aspects to it. But because we have what is called a "free will", we then choose what we want to lean more onto.

What does this mean?

This means  that as an individual you choose and decide which side of the fence you want to lean on more. Do want to lean more onto the negative aspect of things or the positive aspect of things?
The great thing is that both of these live within the same experience.

Meaning that every experience you have has both the positive it brings to your life as well as the negative.

What matters to you as an individual is that you get to choose which side of the coin you want to be on.

These two aspects represent either love or fear. This calls you to thoroughly look at your situations beyond what is currently happening and decide what are you going to allow to take over your life

Now, let's look as to how this virus can be a curse or blessing for humanity?

Curse, to mention just a few;

Socialization which has come to be the most common and trending thing lately, is literally banned meaning that those that are depending on being out there socializing with others are now going to find themselves more bored which can result into many more cases of depression

For a partner who's always used being out there socializing as a way to escape challenges in the home front, they're are already seeing all the worst possible things that are going to happen in their life, and this could lead to more and more people committing suicide or being depressed

Mass gatherings - for most people especially those who go to church to fuel themselves for the week ahead and depend on this for spiritual upliftment, are going to be challenged more than ever, just like someone who depends on drugs when it's not available they get more sick. 

What about our funerals and weddings (black people) that have gotten to be the best place to meet old friends and family?

School closure - kids staying at home all by themselves. Many parents as it is are truly upset because we are always challenged during school holidays, what more now that it's not planned for? What about the food that we always complain about that these kids eat the whole day when not at school. 

These are just a few things that can send one into panic and worry because we have become so accustomed to have things happen a certain specific way and when disaster's like corona hits our world our lives can be really turned up side down. 

What happens if you give in to fear than love?

You become anxious, stress levels increases, blood pressures increases and you end up losing more money to treating diseases that came as a result of this, which will in turn affect your pocket (financially) and eventually affect your well-being in homes because where there's financial and physical turmoil your happiness levels decreases and so is the well-being of society at large

Blessing;

Looking at the very same examples above, let's see how this pandemic can be a blessing

Socialization - this calls us to find other ways and means to socialize with our communities. Now that we can't be on Instagram posting about where you're and who you are with, maybe it's time to post to the very same community and share with them what ideas you've come up with to spend your time 

For the partner who has a partner that was using socializing as an escape and are now forced to be home more than they wanted, how about instead of being happy their "sporo is damaged" 😀 think of ways you can spend time together. Maybe buy yourself play cards like those from Pure Romance that has different things you can do like "pillow talk, action, tell me more about what you think..... etc. I don't see any relationship that will not recover from the dead after all this play and fun while getting to know each other better emotionally and sexually? Talk to me if you want these and I'll hook you up 😍 

Mass gatherings - instead of being stressed that you won't have your fuel charge for the week because there won't be church, how about you find more creative ways to keep yourself spiritually recharged daily. Ask yourself "what practise can I adopt now that I can do daily for about 30 minutes to keep myself uplifted. 

As for church, maybe it's time we relook at the current traditions we've created around church. It's time to think of other ways of keeping the congregants engaged with the word of God more than depending on those instruments and 30 minutes powerful sermons. Maybe it's time we relook as to how we can equip our fellow congregants on a daily basis with tools that can help them not to depend more on the pastor or leaders but on God throughout?

School closure - I know this is a huge one for most parents especially our kids safety within the communities we live in. But I'm of the firm view that this is the time you are called to trust your kids as well as your parenting skills. It's time to elevate your faith that your kids are more than capable to look after themselves. I mean most parents can't even allow their kids to make food themselves because of the fear that they'll either burn the house down and end up eating poison that might kill them. My question to all of us parents is "when are you going to allow yourself the freedom to trust beyond what you don't know?" Maybe it's time your kids showcase to you what they truly are and what they are already capable of. You'll be surprised what you'll learn during this period. Who knows that you've been stressing about too much workload around the house only to find that you've got all the help you've always wanted but didn't know because you didn't allow it in 😀

Look at the benefits of allowing love instead of fear:

More quality time with your partner, which will help improve your communication skills within the relationship and with this your sexual life will improve which will in turn boost your immune system and which is needed in order for the virus to stay out of your body. 

Because of less travel to all over these gatherings you're constantly having, you'll have more money in your pocket to do the many other things you thought you couldn't afford. And when there's money and fulfillment there's more happiness which will result in a better world we live in. What about your kids learning how to be responsible for themselves and be less dependent on you, that means more time for you to do the things you've always wanted to do but complained about not having time for?

I believe this illustrate very well how you can either allow what you see happening around you as a curse or a blessing.

I didn't go into detail on the infectious nature of the virus which is what is being perpetuated all over the media by choice. Because I always choose to look at things beyond what is being reflected. Because at the end of the day, no hype or panic will help your well being but choosing to look beyond what you see which is exercising faith will help you a great deal.

So what is gonna be? Are you going to choose to look at your reality and be miserable about it or are you going to create beautiful memories out of the same reality?

The choice is always yours

I choose Love, and you?

Thank you for stopping by, I hope to hear from you by posting a comment and most importantly share this with all your loved ones

You are never with a wrong partner!

Yes, you heard right. Let me put it in another way, there's no such thing called a "wrong partner" 😀
As painful and as wrong as this may sound to you but it is the truth

What's funny is that some of us have kids with these people we call "wrong partners", what does that say about these kids since the DNA of that wrong person runs in them too?😀😀

Which is why I maintain that there's is no such thing as a wrong partner

Why do I say this?

It is because in this life, nothing happens by coincidence and nothing that is happening or has happened  in your life is a mistake.
This includes all the people that you have been and are still going to be with, you didn't meet them by coincidence. They all came to your life to help you learn certain things about yourself.

What do we term "wrong partners"?

It is those people that bring the worst in us. It is those people that work you up the wrong way and make you see, do, say or even wish terrible things on others. They bring up a side of you that you don't like and/or are not even ready to meet.

What do I mean by this?

The reason you think and believe they are wrong for you is because of the way they behave and what they do to you which results in you feeling a certain way within yourself, i.e. angry, hurt, frustrated, etc.
A question you miss asking or answering for yourself every time you are in that situation is: "why is it that what they are doing or not doing affecting me so much.?"
I mean it is them that is doing or not doing it and not you, then why are you the one feeling these feelings or going through those emotions?
It is because these feelings and emotions are signalling to you that something inside of yourself that you hold onto so dearly is not serving you. This could be from beliefs, contracts/agreement that you made with yourself as result of what you saw happening in front of you, to those around you.

Or maybe that you were pre-conditioned to see and expect life to be a certain way. But now those conditions that you were told are the right way of being or doing are not applicable to you.

Instead of allowing yourself to see these things in you, know them so that you can either change accept them, you resist their existence in your life. And when the people that are brought into your life to help you see these things so that you can heal them, you say they are wrong for you.

What are some of the beliefs we hold that makes us see people as wrong people?

"Men are dogs"
"Women are complicated creatures"
"Men don't want to grow up"
"Women are sluts"

As if there's something wrong with being a dog. I mean we have different types of dog breeds - you just need to know the type of a dog you are with. But most importantly know what type of a dog you want. Don't expect a wild dog whose nature is to be on the wild chasing springboks be a pet dog. It's just not in it's nature. There are people who would love this type of a dog you are with  you know😀

Life and existence is complicated. Do you sit and complain about why you don't know and understand how other things work, like how you are breathing as in now? No, you don't. But you want to understand everything about women? Do you even understand everything about yourself?

It is such things that are making us have miserable relations with others. Because we have unrealistic expectations about things that not in our control.

What to do if you feel or think you are with the wrong partner?

1 - Reflect
What got you in that relationship in the first place?
Why did you choose to be or agree to be with that person in the first place?
2- Question
Your decisions about being there in the first place?
Why you think there's something wrong with this person?
What is wrong with what you are thinking about this person?
3 - Decide
Now that you know all that you know about yourself, what are you going to do about it?
Are you going to do what you've been doing - which is jump to the next ship? or
Are you going to start clearing and healing those aspects of yourself that are hidden from you?

My suggestion to you is - decide to start clearing and healing the aspects within yourself that are even attracting this caliber of people so that you can start appreciating and valuing their presence and existence in your life.

Because, everything that you've been through and you are still going to go through is exactly what you need at any given moment.
In fact, you agreed to it 😂😂😂

My mission in this life is to help you through your journey of love. Help you see the beauty of life as is not what you think it should be or should have been. Which is why I wrote an article not so long ago sharing what I believe love is, you can read all about it here

Instead of sitting and talking about the problem and how those partners have been or are a problem in your life, find a solution that is already within yourself about the very same problem you have

Not sure how do to that?

Reach out to me and I'll gladly assist you with understanding and getting clarity about why you are even having all those experiences in your relationship

Praying about it wont help, fasting for it wont help, but being a solution  is the answer

Do you now see or understand why God hasn't answered your prayers? It's because you want Him to change your guy's plans and he can't do that because you agreed to do it. You might as well start NOW.

The question is: 

"Are you ready to meet the other part of yourself that is being brought out by these wrong people you've been or are with in your life?"

Unfortunately, they don't need to change but you do.

😍😍😍

How you spend your time says a lot about you

When I spoke to my client earlier today, she said  "sorry I didn't find time yet to look into it". This statement reminded me of how many of us find ourselves in this position. Yet all of us on this world have been awarded the same amount of time which is 24 hours in day.

Then , where do the time go to then?

Time goes no where. Time is the only thing that remains constant, meaning if it's 10am CAT, it is 10am for everyone at that region. No one's time will go faster or slower than the other. Time moves in the same constant direction for all of us. 

Yet we find ourselves out of time, why?

Because many of us think that time is what is moving, leaving us, going somewhere it wants to.

But the reality is that "time goes where it is allocated to. If you want your time to go onto social media that's exactly where it will go on your side. You'll find yourself scrolling down from one post to the next. 

Next thing you know it's 1 hour gone and you didn't even think about it

I always say "you allocate time to what is important to you, why?

Because in reality, you will find and make time to what feeds your soul. If it's your favorite soapie, series, etc. You'll definitely find and make time to watch it

You know why?

Because what you have just allocated your time for is exactly what you need that which your soul yearns for at that particular moment. 

This means at that particular moment, when 30 minutes is gone while you sit and watch TV, that 30 minutes has been allocated by yourself to something that serves you.

It could have been 30 minutes to distress or distract yourself from doing something that scares the hell out of you, or something that needs to be done but is so boring for you. 

So that 30 minutes might seem like it's wasted because it has gone to something that you consciously didn't want to do. 

But be reminded, that it is not our conscious mind that runs the show in our lives but our unconscious mind. That is why you don't have to think about running bath water immediately when you get home from a long day at work. You don't even have to think if it's something you have time to do or not. You just do it, because you have conditioned your body to do exactly that when you feel a certain way.

Why do you then feel guilty for spending time on things you didn't plan to?

It is because at that moment you're being reminded  that there is more to what has just happened. 

The 30 minutes you have just spent watching TV or scrolling down on social media, was you running away from yourself. You needed to get away from paying attention to what is important but that which you are not yet ready to face. 

The guilt is also telling you about the conditioning that is currently active in you that is not serving you, signalling to you that there is an incorrect software running inside of you that you need to upgrade as a matter of urgency.

That is why if the 30 minutes was spent on something that you didn't plan but it filled your soul with excitement, the guilt is nowhere to be found. 

Before you accuse someone for not making time for you, be reminded that something more important than you came up. And if you feel angry just thinking of that, reach out to me for help , click here to know more about the work I do

Do this if you want to know where your time goes on a daily basis

For 7 days, monitor what you do from the moment you wake up to when you go to bed to sleep. Don't yet change anything about your schedule. But be aware of where your time goes. 

Before you sleep, record everything that happened in your day from the time you woke up. Put as much information as you can remember, not only the big stuff you did, account for ALL your time. What did you do after waking up, then what, then what.......

Be as detailed as possible, even if you spent 30 minutes on the phone with your friend who needed you, or you browsed on the internet. Anything just put it down for yourself.

Why you need to do this?

This will help you gain awareness about the things that are important to you. See how much time you're spending on what. This exercise is so powerful to help you discover the person you are and the things that your soul came here for. 

So next time you want to bit yourself up for wasting your time in your 24 hours, check what your soul is calling you to do?

You'll be surprised of how much power the things you spend time on are

Nothing ever happens by coincidence, your soul is forever communicating to you - pay attention 💚

That is why you'll never find or make time for anything else because you are already making time for what is important to you 💚💚💚

Thank you for stopping by. Please leave a comment if this helped shed some light for you and then share with all your loved ones

How trusting are you? Test yourself and partner

I'm yet to see a child who isn't born trusting. I mean as a child you trust everything you are told to do or not to do. You trust what you are being taught is good for you. And funny no one needs to teach you how to trust, it just happens.
And then life happens and things fall apart.
Let's start by defining this trust

What is trust?

According to the English dictionary, it is a firm belief in the reliability, truth or ability of someone or something

And a belief is acceptance that something exist or is true especially without tangible proof"

This means trust is not something you touch and can prove it's existence but it is something that you experience.

If trust is such an easy thing thing, then

Where did it all go wrong?

We were led to believe that trust is something that one must acquire. They need to have done something to be trust worthy or for us to trust them.

It is because of this notion that we find ourselves so frustrated in relationships because we want proof that this person can be trusted and/or is trustworthy.

Yet by nature we just trust. I mean everyone when they call it a night and go to sleep, they trust that they'll be here tomorrow. We make plans for the next day or even month or year. Yet we don't know for sure that we'll be here then to experience all of that.

What do trust issues come to tell you about trust in your life?

They are there to remind you or show you how much conditioned you've become. How you've allowed conditions to determine how to experience this life.

How disconnected you have become in relation to the true person that you are. 

You came here knowing, trusting and now in order for you to experience these through and with others , you first need proof?

Who are we called to start trusting?

We are called to remember to trust ourselves, our inner person and guidance. To trust that everything that you are experiencing in this lifetime as is, is for your good and well-being. 

How many times have your inner person communicated with you and yet you ignore them completely because you don't believe that inner voice is you, that inner voice is God in you giving you guidance?

How many times have you let opportunities pass you by just because you don't trust they come from God, you don't trust you are good enough for them, you don't trust they are meat to be. 

What will it take for you to reconnect with yourself and start trusting the person within you?

Fortunately, there's something you can do about this. You can first test and know your trust level then take necessary action to improve it

How to test your trust level?

Find a partner to do this exercise with: 

Ask the partner to stand behind you - arm distance away, feel that they are close enough by touching them, then turn your back away from them

Then throw yourself back to him/her (facing up)

This will help you see how much trust you have. 

If you have smaller kids (7 years and below), ask them to do this with you. Let you as an adult be the one to stand behind them. Tell them to do as mentioned above, see how easy it is for the kids to trust that you'll catch them 😊

You can do this exercise with anyone you want to test your trust levels with, friends, family, lover, siblings etc.

If you can't get yourself to do it, then it means you do not trust and fortunately there's something you ca do to start improving that

What is it that you need to do to regain trust?

• Believe everything is working for your good
• Start saying "yes" to your thoughts and desires. Actually there's a little exercise you can do to improve this, from today for the next 7 days, say "yes" to every question or request you get asked. It doesn't matter by who. Don't try to make sense of what the request is all about and what it means, just say "yes" and see how your life improves daily. Even that little voice that will whisper to you that "turn left here" , just say "yes" by turning left there and see what is the worst that could happen to you.

This exercise will help you greatly to start trusting more on your inner voice. It will help you build the "yes" muscle for your soul and there's no way that you won't experience magic in your life. It will help improve your relationship greatly.

JUST SAY " YES" and trust that life will take you where you are meant to go. Just like you trusted an adult who thrown you up in the air when you were a baby and you trusted that they'll will catch and not let you fall.

There's too many ways or things you can do to build your trust, but you've got to start somewhere and awareness about where you are is key

Proverbs 3: 5 - Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding - THIS IS WHAT YOU ARE CALLED TO BE 🙏

Much Love