Thursday, May 28, 2020

As you heal your love story, period pains vanish

😂😂😂 yes, you heard right.

And this is a true story for me.

I was challenged conceiving my youngest son, in such a way that in 2010 while everyone was enjoying the World Cup here in South Africa, I was in and out of hospital every month, on overnight observations. And every time, I'll be told it's bladder infection.

It was in 2011 March when my manager who was female told me to get a 2nd opinion from other specialist as she knew it was 2 years trying consciously for a baby with no luck. She referred me to a fertility specialist, who discovered a whole lot of things in my womb which led him to diagnosing me with Endometriosis Stage II. He told me something very interesting the day I got discharged out of hospital after a minor operation he had to do, that I must have experienced a lot of trauma because my womb wasn't looking healthy. He also asked if I experienced any period pains of which the answer was a definite yes. He then told me that as soon as one experiences period pains then they must know there's something wrong in their menstrual cycle as one shouldn't be having any pains during their periods. He further explained that your body alerts you through pain as to where it needs attention. 

I mean, in our culture we've been told that it is normal to experience period pains and they will go away when one has a child. That time I had a 11 old year child, so this was found not to be true in my case. As the period pains were getting worse as I was growing older.

Well, let me say I did manage to conceive after the minor operation. But what he had also advised was that we had to consider removing the womb altogether as there was no permanent cure for Endometriosis.

After having a baby I opted to put an Implanton instead of using contraceptives. This contraception method is a 3 year term thing and one doesn't get their periods which suited me very well because I honestly hated my periods, because that was the most miserable time of the month for me. The pain was just too much.

It was in 2014 after removing the Implanton that I decided to fully engage on finding a natural solution for this condition instead of having to remove the womb. That is when I came across the www.floliving.com  website, which gave me so insight about how I can heal these womb issues the natural way.

Now, you may be wondering:

How does all this link to healing the love story?

As I embarked on a journey of healing my love story that's where I realized that the more I delved into healing my pain which has been laying in my womb, I started getting rid of many symptoms that I had been getting, like period pains. 

I mean it's been a while since I've had any symptoms related to the condition I was diagnosed with which i thought was normal, until the fertility specialist told me otherwise. I promise you, now Mrs. Monthly comes without me noticing anything. She will just arrive with no symptoms whatsoever. 😍😍😍.

Now, if you have been in my position where unbearable abdominal and back pains, followed with headaches were your normal life to where I am now, it is a HUGE DEAL 🙏💖. 

How did you do it, you may be wondering?

  1. I downloaded the app MyFlo to start tracking my period cycles and symptoms. The app gives you insights on hormones, what to focus on in terms of work, the exercises to do, food to eat, what to do to boost your love life and you can share the app with your partner so they help you on your journey (whichever way they can - support is everything you know)😍
  2. Started paying attention to Mrs. Monthly herself, the color, odor, length etc.
  3. Delved into monthly womb healing rituals (story for another day)
  4. Most importantly, I started looking at healing my emotional body, which is where I've been carrying these pains. Facing and dealing with all the emotions as they appeared. And truly engaged in healing the aspects of my love story that needed healing. Now, this is a lifetime journey as these pains show up differently in your life, through your relationships, money, work etc. I started investing in dealing with whichever area of my life that was showing me flames. I must say, I'm truly happy to have embarked especially on this particular part of my life, because since I've started understanding why things happen the way they do and show up, my monthly visits by Mrs. Monthly have been such a bliss 😍💖
Which is why today I can attest, that the more you heal your love story, the period pains become the thing of the past. Actually even your fertility issues.

I'm honored to be landholding my fellow sisters as they heal their love story because deep down I know, the benefits are greater than the investment itself. 

Should you wish for me to be part of your healing journey, please do not hesitate to make contact via WhatsApp 064 518 1767 or email: portia@theloveacademy.com

Your Sacred relationship Coach

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