Natural way to test pregnancy to detect early miscarriage/chemical pregnancy

 

This article I'm writing in response to the question or request I received following the post I wrote on miscarriage. 

One of our readers mentioned that there's a condition called chemical miscarriage which normally happens within 5 weeks of pregnancy. 

In most cases when this miscarriage happens most women are not even aware that they are or were pregnant in the first place. 

Naturally, ovulation in women with a 28 day cycle is normally 14 days from first day of your period. With others it happens a bit earlier, lets say between day 9 to 14.

What makes one not to know if they've had this form of miscarriage?

Firstly most women don't even know their own periods. How it feels, how is the flow, how their bodies feel during the different cycles.  They are so disconnected from their bodies so much so that they're clueless as to what is happening with them at any given time. As a result it makes it very difficult for them to know when they are pregnant or if they've just experienced an early miscarriage. The only way they'll know if they were pregnant is through a pregnancy test and with the miscarriage they'll know only if it happens at a later stage and it's confirmed by the doctor. 

What are the symptoms of early/chemical miscarriage?

Late periods that are heavier than normal, dense with big blood cloths and very heavy and painful abdominal pains. 

Many women take this as just an abnormal cycle with their periods where in fact it's a miscarriage.

What are other ways one can have a miscarriage and not be aware of it?

At times it happens that a woman is carrying twins and then miscarries one and the other one survives. This happens where the woman bleeds and have all the other signs of a miscarriage, at times it is confirmed by the doctors but months later they find out they are still pregnant. This too falls into this type of miscarriage that is unnoticed. 

How can one naturally check if they're pregnant or not?

1. Ensure that you keep a period journal where you'll record everything that happens to you during and around your periods. How the period feels and how your body is experiencing the period itself. Even record things as small as how your period looks and feels

2. Know your monthly cycle as well as you know your phone 😂. Know what cycle you are on, i.e. 28 days or less or more. Most importantly know when you are ovulating so you can have or avoid sex (depending on your situation  if you're trying for the baby or not)

3. If you experience the symptoms shared above, seek help - ASAP

And if you have experienced these, do a cleansing, just in case you have lost a baby. 

How to do the cleansing?

The same way you'll do a cleansing if the baby was a still born or if they died when older. 

As mentioned before, so is below as above. Meaning that whatever you do for the ones that lived and you carried consciously in the physical world, do same for those that lived only in spirit.

Remember, I am available to assist with clarity on these matters, don't hesitate to contact me via WhatsApp here or email: portia@theloveacademy.co.za

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GBV - what perpetuates it and how to consciously stop it

 

What is GBV?

Gender based violence is any form of violence done by a gender to another. 

What is sad today is that it has been reduced to violence against women and children only . 

I strongly believed that this shortsightedness about this animal in most of our homes is unconsciously perpetuated through the ignorance around this subject. Many campaigns have been done and are still done but the more investment is done, it seems as if it's the more it is happening.

The greatest challenge currently is that GBV is seen and promoted as something that happens to women and girl children. It is this notion that makes me say we unconsciously perpetuate it for when one erases themselves in the equation, the more they are distancing themselves from being the solution they are.

My take is that women are the greatest contributors to GBV

And how do they do that?

Firstly, the truth is that every man or boy out there is raised by a woman. But when something bad happens to this child the woman is never blamed but we are too quick to either blame the absent fathers or even bad friends. 

This oversight is exactly what makes this bad seed to grow and multiply itself into so many ways out there. If we want to really fight and win this battle, we need to include ourselves (women) as part of the problem.

Secondly, most women carry a lot of wounds and trauma around motherhood and we are not conscious of it. We think and believe that we are the way we are because we were excluded in a lot of things during apartheid times. While that is very true, we unconsciously exclude ourselves in a lot of things especially when it comes to the naughty and ill disciplined children. The only time we include ourselves is when we play the victim card but never part of the very problem at hand. 

What we fail to understand is that you can never be able to bring and be a solution to something that you are not part of. All your solutions will be outsourced from others instead of them coming from within you like when you recognize that you are actually part of the problem.

What are the other ways we promote GBV unconsciously?

Fighting the other woman for whatever reason, instead of facing the monster in the house. 

Insulting each other through body shaming, cyber bullying, gossip, PD (pull down) syndrome. 

These things start small in our very own households, where children are groomed to behave a certain way instead of allowing them to show us who they are. For example, when giving chores, it's very rare that parents will rotate chores, but instead there will be chores for girls and chores for boys. What happens then to those kids where who they are differs from what you know? Where the boy is more the soft one and the girl more the outdoor one? That child will grow up trying to suffocate who they are so they can fit into this structure formed in the home. And when they grow up, they have to burst out of that bubble and end up hurting the very same person they say the love, because why? Their first experience of being hurt was received through a woman (mother) in the name of discipline. 

Then it is a mother who raises kids all by herself because the father is absent. Because they're unconscious and not dealing with the anger that this relationship setup is putting them through, they take it out on children unconsciously so, shouting at them, going as far as saying things like "you're like your father - useless"

These things have become such a norm that we don't think about the impact it is having on the child who will one day be a boyfriend or husband to a girl or woman.

The other most dangerous thing is the belief that it is mainly women that are being abused. When in reality it could be a whole lot of men but it is not seen because they hardly report the abuse they suffer through their parents, partners and/or siblings. 

What can we collectively do to drastically change the status quo?

By knowing what type of woman one is. Because women carry the power of multiplication within them. When a woman understands who she is as a supernatural being who has the most powerful 6th sense, only then we will get this thing right, because each woman will understand what type of a woman they are, and so are the man will understand what type of a woman they came through. Knowing this is the greatest gift we as humanity can ever experience.

If you didn't know we have 3 types of women

1. The one who gets married and go build or awaken things from the husband's side, this they've started at their own homes already

2. The one who bores children at home, even from different fathers and those kids never have a relationship with their fathers, not because she doesn't want them to but at times it's because the fathers have chosen to be absent (abazala imilanjwana). These children turn out to be the ones who build and sustain their mother's family home

3. The one who never marry, at most times will have 1 or 2 children which is very rare also, they are the ones that stay behind at home when everyone either dies or marries or never seem to care. They build and maintain their own family home (mafitwa)

Why it's important to know this?

It will help heal the wounds of not having a father which makes most people mainly men to behave a certain way and claim it's because they never had a father. But if they understood they are imilanjwana there won't be a need to go looking for the father you never had because you understand your position in this family.

Similarly, there won't be any pressure put to the women who are meant to stay at home to want to be in marriages they are not meant to be in, this wound of being called names or your children being called names won't be there because you fully understand your position

When we do these, we are now putting things back into the order they are/were meant to be. Instead of using words to destroy each other, we would be better equipped with the right knowledge as to who we truly are and who we are born of. 

When we are aware of such things about ourselves, then we as women will not find ourselves multiplying pain and hurt but instead we will use our 6th supernatural sense to create the things we want and that are meant to be instead of that which we don't want. 

With all this being said, do you know what type of a woman you are or you were born from?

How is this impacting your life currently?

Should you wish to gain more clarity on this, please don't hesitate to make contact via whatsapp or email: portia@theloveacademy.co.za

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An unknown or hidden source of miscarriages and abortions

 

What is a miscarriage or abortion?

A miscarriage or abortion is a loss or death of a soul whether voluntarily or involuntarily. Voluntarily is when ones chooses the death to happen through an abortion and involuntarily is when it happens without the consent of the person pregnant. 

It must be noted that not all abortions are as a result of people not wanting to have a child at that particular moment, but at times it is a decision taken based on medical reasons, like a baby being at a high risk of having a lot of deformities that might result in the child not able to lead a normal life, e.g. problems with a heart or brain doesn't grow. Because of the too much risk , then a person would be advised to rather abort/terminate the pregnancy.

What if I told you that the source of both these events could be the same thing?

Before I go there, I would like to start here first:

As soon as implantation of a fertilized egg happens, a life is formed. Meaning that a soul is alive within you even though it is not yet in human form. 

The challenge with many of us is thinking that only once a baby is brought into this world, it is then that they are called a being. 

But in truth, even before bones and all other organs are formed life is already living within you. Even without a heart yet, the pregnancy can be detected through an ultrasound. 

We are told in the Bible that when a human being was formed, God said "Let us, create one of our own image". The question is "who was God talking to?". Some of us believe it were the Angels, spiritual council, ancestors, etc. Bottom line there were others that were involved in the creation of that soul. 

Now, when death happens to this soul, either voluntarily or involuntarily, loss or grief is brought to those that were involved in this formation/creation process. 

So, when death happens, there's things that needs to be done, to process and release the trauma of this loss. 

In the physical world, a funeral as well as a cleansing ceremony will be done to mourn and release this soul. 

The challenge happens when the death is in the early pregnancy, it is normally not done. The question we should be asking ourselves is "why"? Because just like in the physical realm life was created and lost. Why do we then think a life that lived within a womb is any different from the life that came to this earth?

I mean those that gets a still born child, they still undergo the same process of a normal death. What makes us think the other life doesn't or didn't matter?

What I mean by the source being the same between the 2 instances or events is exactly what I've just explained above. A life existed but its existence wasn't taken to account because it didn't last long?

Ask anyone who's lost something, it could be a phone, clothing or business, no matter how long they've had it, once it is lost, the pain they feel is the same as if they had it longer.

The same applies to those souls. They too need to be mourned and cleansed just like if it was a normal human being. Because they too existed in someone's womb no matter how long it was. 

They too matter. 

As we know by now that energy can't be destroyed but it gets transformed, who knows what these souls gets transformed into? 

All that I'm fully aware of and know is that, they too needs the very attention as others are given. Failure to do that is what leads to many people experiencing unexplainable miscarriages and abortions. I believe with my whole being that it is these unattended souls seeking someone's attention, in this case you that are experiencing such.

What if you've never had an abortion or miscarriage before yet you keep having miscarriages?

Remember within you exist generations and generations of souls through your DNA. If it's not you, it's definitely someone within your family especially your mother or grandmother, refer to this article for clarity on this.

So if any of them didn't perform a ritual to cleanse themselves after any of these events, it will reappear through your own experience because at the end of the day it must be done by someone, because the Law says "as above so is below"

What if you're not aware of this happening to your mother or grandmother, how would you know?

Your experiences will tell you. You yourself will have an abortion or miscarry for any other reason,  valid or not, it will happen because the cleansing must happen. 

Who gets affected by such happenings?

A person who's had an abortion

A person who was born after a still born or miscarriage

A person who was involved in the decision making especially if it was not because of medical reasons

How do they get affected?

They will struggle to find or maintain good relationships

Have unending womb problems

Experience more and more miscarriages in their lives especially if they try to conceive 

Experience endless money issues

Unexplainable job losses

Inability to thrive in business or career wise

Forever in debts (compulsive unending debts)

Scared of responsibility, shows signs of being a child forever)

Signs of slow growth especially in the child born after a miscarried/aborted child. They might turn out to be very ill disciplined and even end up using subtance to cope with the turmoil within them

And many more...........

What needs to be done to correct these?

Cleanse and purify yourself

Acknowledge the soul and their existence as part of you - e.g naming them

Forgive yourself 

Why is it important to cleanse and purify yourself?

It is a universal law. 

During the birthing process, death and life happens one after the other. The stage of a child being solemnly dependent on the mother in the womb ends (death stage), once that death stage happens or is reached, water comes as a sign that there's a new life coming through or birth taking place. 

According to the Bible when a human being was formed, God made it to rain and then formed man out of the dust that was turned to mud which was used to form a man into shape

When we loose a loved one, we all cry (water)

So the cleansing process is very important as it symbolizes the start of a new chapter in ones life. It's a sign of new beginnings. When we cleanse we reconnect with our pure God self. We cleanse ourselves of shame and guilt we might carry long into our lives because of these decision. Guilt and shame blocks love and creation ability in our lives.

Because the energy never dies but gets transformed, in these cases, it has now been transformed into a destructive energy hence we need to give it attention by acknowledging that it existed and then cleanse ourselves from the death stage and welcome the new life.

It is for these reasons, that you the person who is experiencing such challenges and have done many things besides this yet nothing seems to work, it's time for purification, not only for yourself but for all the other generations before you and those that will come after you. This way, you stop the generational curse that has probably started through your grandmother, passed through your mother to you and if you don't do anything about it, you stand a huge chance of passing it to your next generation (children and grandchildren).

All I can do over and above writing this blog to explain these things to you, is to plead with you to please do your part and rest shall follow.

Remember the word says:  "seek first the Kingdom of God and the rest shall be added onto to you". This is one of the ways we seek ye first, which is collecting all your leaking energies from places that no longer serve you.

I would really love to hear from you, please leave a comment or question below and also share this with your loved ones. 

If you wish to get hold of me for a consultation, please do so by email on: portia@theloveacademy.co.za or Whatsapp here

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