Dear parents......

Your kids are not here to learn from you but to help you grow 💥💥💥

Yep, you heard right!

What do I mean by that?

Your child knows you better than you think they do. They know very well actually.

Because your child's pure existence is YOU. 

In your child runs run your blood and your DNA. Your child being here is a full expression of who you are. 

In order for the baby to be formed, your reproductive cell which is an egg and a sperm had to come together to form this baby. 

So, you are a huge part of your child.

How can they know you? 

They came here to help you know a different way of being besides what you know. That is why as kids grow older, they will tell you in your face, that "I'm not you, I don't see things like you, can't I just be myself"

They know very well that being you (the parent) is not that there is to being, but there's actually more to it. Which is why they came through this life to help you to discover a whole more about life.

But, because we were taught that baby's learn from us, we then thought we have to act a certain way, do certain things so that they can be better individuals.

Guess what, that is a bubble that these kids are here to help us blow up. They came here already knowing who and what you are all about.

It's even worse, as a mother the baby takes on everything about you from emotions, to energies to the food you consume, etc. while they are still in your tummy.
The same applies to the father, the baby take on whatever you are at that moment. If you are present during the pregnancy, the child will warm up so easily and connect with you so easily. 

If the child came through rape, they know the kind of seed you are, and they come here to help heal that particular type of seed in humanity whichever way they came to do

What is parenting all about?

Parenting is all about your growth.

It is all about you allowing another human being to be fully themselves.

It is about you allowing to heal from a whole lot of emotions and wounds you are already carrying.

It is about you allowing yourself to be shown a different way to be in this life.

It is not all about you, but them. Stop putting yourself under pressure, because the more you do that, the more you plant things in this child that they are not here for. The more you create resistance in your life, that will express itself in so many different way, e.g ill discipline, anger, etc.

Just let the child be, they know how to be.

You don't believe me? Look at a new born baby, the know how to be joyful, happy all by themselves without your help. 

They know when to do whatever they are ready for without your help. They know how to communicate with you and get your attention on whatever they want. That is why they'll cry if they need a nappy change or are hungry or are not feeling well. They know when to start walking, etc.

They know very well how to express and communicate whatever they need to at any given moment.

You don't need to teach them how to do these things. They are doing this all by themselves - knowing how.

All you have to do is allow yourself to be taught what you don't know through them, because all that you know is what was taught and instilled in you. They know that, and God being good, he co-created a human being with you so that you can learn from a smaller version of yourself. 

Look around you and see what amazing things children around you are capable of doing. They are doing things that some of us as adults we don't even know. Creating wonders in the world. 

Kids have written and published book as early as 4 years old, some by the time they are 8 (like Stacy Fru) have published about 4 books. I heard the other day that the highest paid YouTuber is an 8 year old boy Ryan Kaji

And we want to think, these kids don't know they are?

Do I say all kids are like this?

Yes, I believe with my whole being all kids are greatest teachers. I don't know how many learning I've received in my life through my now 8 year old son. From before his birth, until this day, I've learnt and still learning valuable life lessons through him.

He cries when he wants to cry, he gets easily excitable, he's not afraid to ask for help, he knows very well how to express himself through his body, language, alles. He tells things as he sees them. He knows things we ourselves don't know and explains them very well to us. There's a lot

What am I saying to parents?

Can we please allow these kids to be. 

If you have already done the damage because you didn't know or see things this way, it's OK. Your child knows that too. But it's time for you to let go of thinking you know better. 

Because the truth of the matter is you don't. 

Allow yourself to heal through your child by first acknowledging what you have done this far unconsciously and all in the name of teaching them. Forgive yourself for you didn't know. Then go apologies to your child and then sit back and watch how things turn around in your life through their eyes.

You owe yourself and them that much

ALLOW YOUR CHILD TO HOLD YOUR HAND TOO!

Thank you for stepping by, I'm glad to be a guide to shed this light to you

Much love