You are a HUMAN BEING, do you really understand what this really mean?

 I often hear people say: "I'm like that and I will never change". And this makes me really wonder if this person truly understand what they are saying about themselves or if they even understand what being a human or being called a 'human being' really means. 

Well I thought I should share this over a blog. 

What does it mean?

It means that on a daily basis you're becoming. You're evolving, you're actually meeting a new part of yourself. 

When do people actually say such a statement - "I'm like this"?

It happens when one is refusing to acknowledge the present, the now. When they are in denial of a situation and wanting to hold on to something that is no longer serving that current situation they are in. 

What I find interesting is that such statements come when there's a conflict of some sort. And when people are suppose to address and deal with the issue at hand they then want to hold to what  was.

What is the reality for all of us?

Our reality is that we are changing and becoming on a daily basis. Actually every second. What I normally tell my clients is that everything you know about yourself NOW, is history. You're meeting a new aspect of yourself on a daily basis that you are not aware of.

Once we can all understand this, we will stop limiting ourselves by holding on to what we know about ourselves and then welcome the opportunity to receive the person we're becoming on a daily basis. 

 This understanding will help alleviate a lot of frustrations as well as limitations in one's life. 

Do you want proof to see how much you're changing on a daily basis?

Take a picture of yourself after reading this article , then set a remainder for a week or so then take another picture of yourself then.

If you also want to see how much change you're embodying on a daily basis, go and check your posts, ideologies of Jan 2021 and see how much you've grown or changed this far. 

And if accepting the changes you're seeing about someone close to your heart is giving you heartache, please do reach out here and book a coaching session so we can help deal with that. 

Much love