Who is Nomasonto?

Nomasonto is a mother of 3  boys married to a lovely human being, who despite all my flaws agreed to do this love and life thing with me

I was born and bread in Johannesburg - South Africa. I come from a very small township under Ekurhuleni Municipality called Tokoza.

I'm one of the very fortunate souls (others may say unfortunate)  that was not raised by both my biological parents. But because God has a plan for every human being on this planet, he saw fit that i be raised by the most loving family that adopted me (unofficially).

I'm a relationship coach, an author of a lovely book Plastic Man, an business woman and a servant of God.

My mission is to help as many souls heal their love story and in the process help them create sustainable healthy relationship, because YOU deserve it

Why I do the work I do?

As eluded above, I was never raised by my biological parents (like many more people out there) as a result I walked around life carrying feelings of rejection and abandonment - UNAWARE.

I walked through life believing that there is something wrong with me because out of all the whole crew (my siblings) I was the only one who wasn't raised by my mother. I thought maybe I wasn't good enough for her (them), hence......

Worse of all I was sexually abused and raped from a very early age and all this confirmed that there definitely is something wrong with me.

What's interesting is that because I was young and was living in a family with both a mother and a father, I never felt the absence of my biological parents. I journeyed through life as if all was well. 

It was only LATER in my life that I started feeling a disconnect. 

This is WHY I do what I do  to help more people see their blind-spots which brings a lot of AWARENESS to one about themselves. Because when you know yourself better you are able to relate to others much better.

And when we relate to each other better, we build strong families,  communities, societies, which in turn impact the world we live in.

Sadly, many of us are not even AWARE of who we truly are and we go around in life thinking others are the bigger problem to us.

Well stay tuned to this blog to learn more........ 😍

When did I start and how long have I been doing this work?

I've been doing this work for as long as I could remember, to be exact it was in my teens. People (mostly adults) will come to me for advise about problems they are experiencing with their families, children, spouse, etc. For whatever the reason I always knew what to say to them and they'll leave feeling relieved and excited because what they saw as a mountain in front of them was now a small ant 😌😂

What is relationship coaching, really?

Relationship coaching is helping an individual relate better with themselves as well as everyone and everything around them.

It is what others term "Life coaching". I call it relationship coaching because I specifically help people RELATE better while being the best version of themselves 😍

What can you expect from this blog?

Everything about love, family, friends, colleagues, children, church members etc. 

We'll laugh, cry, get serious and be playful together. 

In this blog I'll be touching on topics that will make you LOOK at yourself in a completely different way. You'll wish you never came here to read 😂😂😂

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MUCH LOVE

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