Do you know that most of your beliefs around love are inherited?
Think deeply about that 🤔
It is a well know fact that has been proven a couple of times already that a baby can hear and distinguish voices while they're still in the womb. Meaning that many of the things you know of now didn't happen only now, you've been part of them way before you came onto this earth.
You heard and believed them way before you even braced this earth with your presence. You came here already knowing of your family challenges and strengths. And you agreed to take part in this journey of life with them
What does this mean then in terms of my relationships?
It means some of the things you do as in behaviors in your current relationship that you can’t explain why you' are even doing them, you have inherited them 💥
Now, before you start celebrating and saying things like “No wonder, well it's not my fault “ or "I knew it, I was born like this, people have just got to accept it". Understand this one thing, you came here knowing and part of the reason you are here is to change the very same things, not doing them, that's why they are frustrating you so much.
If you don't have this understanding you'll end up walking around creating the very same patterns in all your relationships forever.
How do I know what I've inherited that I came here to change?
In order for you to establish what are some of these things that you've inherited but you are here to change, you need to be aware of the things that are frustrating you about others.
For example,
You hate it when people lie to you, but you yourself do tell white lies every now and then?
You get angry when people gossip about you, yet you are always gossiping about others on every chance you get?
You get hurt when others cheat on you, yet you cheat on yourself daily by not doing what you promised yourself you'll do for yourself?
You went to the shops to buy yourself that beautiful dress and you came back with clothes for everyone in the house besides yourself and yet you cry for someone not paying attention to your needs?
What are the results of choosing not to do anything about this?
When you don't walk in your truth you end up thinking the world is against you. Because what you resist will persist until you do something about it.
You end resenting the very same people that you claim to love; that they don't love you back because they don't appreciate anything you do for them, yet you have forgotten about the most important person in your life at this moment - you!
What should you be doing?
Now that you are aware of all this, instead of being stuck in the victim mode and blaming your parents especially your mothers for all the mess you keep creating in your love life because of what you learnt through her before you even came here, do what you came here for which is to change things around
The decision always lies with you, you decide which side of the coin you want to be
Whichever one you choose, the truth is that you came into this lifetime to heal and change whatever you inherited that wasn’t good for humanity.
Even the Bible confirms it “ you were wonderfully and fearfully made”
God knew before you were even formed that someone like you is needed here in this lifetime NOW 🙏🏼
Unfortunately when HE asked “who will go fix this in this family?” You gladly accepted the call and said “Thuma mina Baba, I’ll go” 🤣🤣
Now that you’re hear you “act” as if you’re being victimized whereas you agreed to it All 🤣🤣
Why does it hurt so much then?
It hurts because unfortunately you didn’t get a road map or manual as to how you’re going to travel this journey. But everything was imprinted in your soul/spirit.
Which is why whenever you do something that is against what your soul knows you’ll feel it by being hurt or through pain 🙏🏼. And whenever you do something good the very same soul in you will jump with joy
What does it all mean then?
It means that the people around you need not change, but you need to and get in alignment with what you came here for
Otherwise you’ll end up believing that Love doesn’t exist and transfer the very same belief to generations that are going to come through you because as a woman you’re a co-creator and you create whatever it is you want to have
You can’t carry on believing that love hurts, love is unreal, love doesn’t exist because YOU are love yourself, you were made in God’s image and God is love 💕
What do you mean 'you don’t exist', you’re here aren’t you?
It's time to practice what you know
If you’re Christian like me, you can not be speaking such a language because Philippians 4:13 says “I can do everything through Christ who strengthens me”, so?
Do your part
Instead of you complaining and praying about this and that not being right or being done right to you, get into your rightful position and DO what is right because “Faith without Action is Useless “
What you need to do is to remember what you came here for, to create it if it doesn’t exist
You’ve done everything else you know by yourself and yet nothing changes, then it’s time to seek counsel and get help from someone outside of yourself, someone like me through the work I do.
There’s always a way to do things better.
Not knowing doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist, rejecting it doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist
Reach out, otherwise your kids and generations to come through you will inherit whatever you thought and believed about LOVE just like you did.
Thank you for stepping by, please do share with your loved ones.
Much love
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