Tuesday, January 18, 2022

How your 1st period relates to everything in your life - work, love, relationships, money, etc.

 

What is this woman on about now?

Hahahahaha, I'm sure that's the question that ran through your mind as you read the title of this blog, hahahahahaha

Well, let me indulge you then

What are periods in the first place?

It's a time in a month where a woman will  naturally cleanse off her body what is no longer needed by the body for that period. This is my simplest explanation.

According to the scientific explanation it is said that it is a vaginal bleeding that happens as part of the woman's monthly cycle if no pregnancy had happened that the body had prepared for.

What has your 1st period had to do with anything?

Before I can go there, let me first explain when do a woman starts getting periods. 

There comes a stage in a girl's development that the body naturally gets to that part where  as a girl whom may at times be still a child around 10 to 12 or teenager grows to be a woman. 

And when that stage comes, it is shown by a girl getting their periods. This normally happens during  puberty. 

What this then means is that the girl child's body is capable to conceive and co-create with God, i.e make babies.

It is for that truth that most of us are told to stay away from boys when we get our 1st period. No any other education happens around it. 

In most cases when you do get the lecture (if you're lucky) it comes in the form of fear, being told of what to fear and nothing with what else does this mean about you and to you as a girl child. As a result many of us fear getting our periods early or even having them at all. 

As you can see from the little explanation shared,  you're co-creating with God at that moment. You have just been ordained with your natural super power and ability which comes with the power of multiplication that God gifted every woman with.

What needs to be happening when a girl child gets to this stage, it should be celebrated, like it used to happen back in the olden days. 

Unfortunately it is not, why? Because of FEAR.

How was your 1st period experience and how old were you?

Yesterday  I wrote on my Facebook timeline; "the day equivalent to the age you were when you first had your periods says a lot to you about yourself, your purpose and mission in this life". You should have seen the comments, hahahahahaha.

What I found interesting was that many people didn't even remember how old were they but remembered who they were with, how they felt and what was said to them. 

I'm here to share with you that it is very important to know or remember when was your 1st period and most importantly how you felt and what was happening, why?

Because that was your spiritual awakening, when you stepped into your greatness, your super natural Godness. 

How you experience your ordination to your womanhood serves as a foundation as to how you'll step into the many other areas of your life that speaks to your  growth and development.

What do I mean by this?

Let me illustrate by using a practical example:

When I first had my period I was 17. It was the most painful experience I've ever had. I thought I was actually dying. Nothing I took could make the pain go away, until some lady made a concussion for me using herbs, I could smell aloe, I could smell weed, I could smell jeyse fluid and methylated spirit in this thing and I fell into deep sleep.

Then when I gave back to my 1st child I also felt like I was dying. When I left corporate into business I felt like I was dying. Everytime there's a huge step I must take in my life that leads to great expansion and growth I freeze, feel numb as if my heart is about to stop. 

As I embarked on my healing journey I received a revelation that I must start observing what happens on the 17th of every month in my life. I have noticed that I make life changing decisions or I'm able to gain clarity or find solutions on this day. 

17 has become my lucky number. I also discovered that my late grandmother that we share so much in common with was 17 when she left home and never looked back to go start a new life outside of home for herself. 

Recently I have been officially welcomed as a makoti to the family I've been married into for 12 years already, I left home on the 17th and this was unplanned on my side but it is a date his family was most comfortable with.

What am I saying to you?

I'm saying to you, your purpose and mission of being here in this life lies on the day equivalent to the age you were when you stepped into womanhood your Godness self.

Your strengths and weaknesses lie in how you experienced your periods. What was said to you, who was with you and how you felt are all messages that gives you an idea of who you truly are.

And if you don't remember much, observe what happens around you on this day, what are people crying about or complaining about, what you are attracted to on this day. All this will give you a piece of a puzzle for your greater mission. 

That's why my advise is, journal on this day. Journal about everything, from how you are feeling, what you're observing about others and events happening around you. As you keep journaling you'll get to meet and know things about yourself that are a huge aspect of your being. 

When you start journaling on this day as well as when you are in your periods, you'll find so much about yourself that will help you with your love life, your work and/or business as well as your life purpose.

And if you are one of those people who their experiences were too painful and traumatic, here with is a link to a womb healing technique that I've also used and had great impact in my life

Remember your body stores all the emotions and experiences you go through, which is why it's important to make sure that you incorporate body movement into your daily life.

I am here to remind us women that we are more powerful than we actually phantom and it is time we step up and own our greatness. 

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